I have
had the chance to see some interesting things over this summer and I just
dawned on me that unfortunately, blank Chicks run in packs – for the most part.
They get dressed up in their summer’s best clothing and hit the jazz concerts,
the beach, the amusement parks, the malls and man it’s like an all-star comedic
review. If I could get paid for the number of blank Chicks running around in
packs, I would open up a blank Chick rehab center and send these females into
treatment. There would be no forms to fill out, I would drive around in a van
and just pick them up, blindfold them and take them to the treatment facility.
I have crew of Real Women waiting to tutoring and mentor them and provide them
new lifestyle skills on everything from how to dress and put on makeup to
carrying themselves as a respectable lady and still get the right man for them
all at the same time.
If you
don’t know my mantra by now, I shall say it again for you, “You don’t have to
be a blank Chick all your life!” I really know this to be true, you can walk
away from your blank Chick ways and you, especially, don’t have to run in a
pack. Come on, you’ve seen them...they all look desperate and hungry, hunting
for a man with too much makeup on, enough perfume to make you sick to your
stomach as they gallop by you with raunchy clothes, jewelry and hooker hills to
match. But there is something that you will notice about these women if you pay
close attention – there is one who is the loudest and most dominate, she is the
pack leader. She is the most outrageous of them all and she controls the
movements of the others. She stands out because she is the one that demands to
be the center of attention and he minions are often people who kiss her ass and
live by her words. Now you wouldn’t consider her a blank Chick in most cases,
most would call her the boss Chick or an alpha-female but you got it wrong.
This woman is the most insecure in the bunch and controlling the other women or
having other women around her with low self-esteem and low self-worthy just
help to make her feel better about her blank Chick-ness. She needs people to
co-sign her raggedy viewpoint on life, those that will offer no opposition and
those that will allow her to continue down the road of being a true blank Chick.
She is most likely the one that cannot be saved; the others have some potential
for rescue. Which leads me to the other end of the spectrum; you will also find
the woman in waiting. This young lady just hasn’t found her voice but she is
the one that really doesn’t fit in the pack but because she hasn’t met the
right woman to take her under her wing and remove her from the pack, she just
sits back and rolls with the group. This is the one that can be saved from a
life of mistake after mistake with friends and lovers. She is more to herself
than the rest and would rather be in the background instead of up front and
center. Unfortunate for her, she has aligned herself with the wrong group of
women and she hasn’t found a way to break free – this is the woman that I
usually try to befriend and offer her the option of moving out of the blank Chick
crew and into her own womanhood with the ability to stand on her own two feet
with friends or without, with a partner or without. I help her get in touch
with her true self and leave those blank Chicks alone.
So
these is my challenge to all the REAL WOMEN out there, go out and observe blank
Chick packs; look for the two women that I just described. Grab the lady in
waiting and offer her your mentorship but when you do be ready for the pack
leader to approach you with some random bullshit. Challenging her will only
lead to her blank Chick antics to go into full swing and being a woman of
character you don’t want to have to slap the hell out of her and lose yourself
for a moment to blank Chick thinking. Simply handle her ass with tack and class
and she will back down because your strength will out shine her weakness but if
she wants to take it to the streets on you do what you have to do!
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